Good potential is not enough. Date who they are at this point in time, not who they could be in ...
Valentine’s DayValentine’s Day
“Are you sure you don’t want to go out?” My husband is the most sensitive, kind and considerate man I ...
Quit PretendingQuit Pretending
Pretending for the sake of a relationship or to attract a partner is a bad, bad idea. It disrespects yourself ...
Always Be My Maybe, 2019 filmAlways Be My Maybe, 2019 film
Let me just start by saying that I usually enjoy covers of songs, but this version of “Young Americans” in ...
Prepare for DisappointmentPrepare for Disappointment
There will be disappointment with dating, it is just part of the deal. Even when you do everything right. I ...
Resist!Resist!
A Desperado asks: How does American culture encourage desperately dating and how do we resist? American culture definitely pushes coupledom. ...
Do Not Censor Your ListDo Not Censor Your List
A desperado writes: “I started making my list of desired traits in a potential partner and I feel like I ...
Gifts. The Good, The Bad and the UglyGifts. The Good, The Bad and the Ugly
Just in time for the holiday season a reminder: Gifts aren’t for us. They are for the recipient. Sounds basic, ...
Doin’ The Co-Parenting DanceDoin’ The Co-Parenting Dance
Ever been triggered by an ex? Led right down the garden path to old patterns that make you just as ...
“No Strings Attached” 2011 Movie“No Strings Attached” 2011 Movie
This movie with Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman was a bit of a puzzle to me. It deals with a ...